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When SUPERFICIALISM Is The Reason You're Single

1/11/2014

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She rejects him because he's wearing white socks, he rejects her because she is not sporting double DD breasts. We're alone and wanting to be in a relationship, but our single-doom damnation may be all our own stupid fault. 
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No one will deny that looks, attraction and an aesthetically pleasing demeanour are important to forming an interest in a potential mate. But in the hunt for love, some have taken the need for their partner to have the optimum appearance (whatever that is to them) and the opulent lifestyle that their intended should be living, way too far. We as a society which is constantly bombarded with the imagery of glamour and the often associated fame, have seemingly come to expect, that this lifestyle should be afforded us, with no real reason...deserved or otherwise. We are nit-picking and acting like spoilt kids, running a social software programme, that filters out what is supposedly not cool, because 'cool' and 'popular' are the social currency of the times that really matter. We dislike elements about people, that in the grand scheme of things, will not aid in the attempt to form and sustain a relationship and as the song says "you can't always get what you want." But for those who haven't heard those lyrics, it seems that all that they want, is all that they are aiming for - well good luck. ​The following are some stupid reasons for rejection on initial contact or after a few dates.
WHY WOMEN REJECT
Snobbery: She's come across a man that she finds attractive, only to find out that what he does for a living is not very glamorous, so she shuts him down. You may think you deserve an oil tycoon or a famous inventor, but does he deserve the likes of you? Are you so well rounded and accomplished in every department that this billionaire will put you above all other contenders?

Height:  Not only is he taller than you, he's taller than you when you wear your highest heels, but you have set your mind on marrying Goliath, still not realising that height will not be the deciding factor as to whether your relationship goes the distance.

Swagger: When the man's image is more important to her, than it ever will be to him...She sees her man as a walking, talking cool brand to be paraded amongst the masses. If you're not, then you ain't hot.

Money: You don't look like someone who has it, so you won't be given the time of day...have you seen the way Bill Gates dresses?

Education: You find out that he hasn't got the same level of qualifications as you and you gain a superiority complex that you're too good for him. Does he need to build a particle weapon in front of you or something? Alternatively, there is snobbery and elitest thinking that surrounds where you went to school.
WHY MEN REJECT 
Success: He finds out how much money she makes and it's more than he does. This makes him feel emasculated, which of course is one of the worst feelings a man can have whilst being in a relationship. So of course he won't venture forward. It's the 21st century son! If you are looking for a decent woman, who works, has good character and skills (the things that you supposedly look for in a partner) then you are very likely going to find someone who is also accomplished in her field and earning the due reward for it.

Physicality: She doesn't have the body of your absolute ideal...in fact, for you, most women don't have that body. However you continue to look for some myth of a figure that only exists in your head...or a lads magazine - once the model has received 4 hours of airbrushing. Start a new mantra "She Is Good Enough".

Forthcoming Attitude: A Woman that can lay all her cards on the table and knows what she wants, can scare the be-hay-zeus out of some men, though I use the noun men loosely. Women are wrongfully coached not to do this, where as, I think if a man can handle this type of conversation, he should be considered mature and a contender.

Extreme Independence: Men want to be significant in their ladies life, if she is so busy doing things that don't require them to help or even do something, independent of her input, then some men start to feel obsolete. When a man can't see his role in your life, he won't bother following his desire. Think of a wookie needing to win at chess.

 UNIVERSAL
  • You don't like how they dress or you detest a particular fashion element that they love.
  • You find out that they have never taken part in one or any of your biggest interests and don't intend to either.
  • Mildly differing politics
  • They don't go on holiday every year
  • You don't like their nationality

Use the above photos to honestly build your partner and you will quickly learn what your focus is.
View the photos below to re-craft your perception.
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Pretty girl writes to rich man, rich man schools her 
on the uselessness of just being pretty and more...
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