The quickest explanation of the metaphysical is; the intangible, the things we know exist, but are hard to quantify as a physical thing. Though they are usually encased within the physical realm the most common of these things are love, hate, fear. You can’t measure, touch, taste or smell them, but we recognise them as real.
Do you constantly obsess about somebody?
Do you even see them in your dreams on a regular basis?
Well Your Reason Might Be...
The rules regarding sex outside of a marriage or what is commonly called ‘fornication’, usually stem from a religious view and unfortunately that often comes with condemnation, hail and fire. But I would bet you that beyond theistic circles, wise scholars and people in learned circles also had the knowledge of what sex could lead to without attaching any religious viewpoint to it, as whether you believe in God or not, the principles of the universe are the same all over. In some way, everybody in their own area of society upheld the same view together…it's just that many did not know the real reason why.
The Other Thing That Happens During Sex
When you have sex, there is a meeting of everything that amalgamates to make a human being. Body, mind, soul and spirit all move as one and imprint on the person you are connecting with. In present days, the concentration is on the physical residue we may leave in the form of a disease and the want, to receive the utmost pleasure. Some of us take precautions to protect ourselves from unwanted pregnancies and STDs.
In other words; for the most part we are only schooled in contraception and how to stop unwanted physical consequences from happening. However when we have sex, we are also leaving a metaphysical essence too, which can birth other problems and dis-ease.
This problem of meta-physical residue would never garner the same attention and cautionary tales as physical ones because most people don’t know about the issue.
Metaphysical Residue – What We Leave Behind
Now one might say, that the 'virtue' of monogamy has probably come from these teachings, that the suggestion that a relationships should be: one person for one other person was not given to hinder fun, but for protection. But even in saying that, the right person still has to be chosen because you will keep, what they bring to you. You will reap what they sow. As a general reality, not many people are only going to have sex with one person in their lives, so the understanding and the ability to cleanse oneself is important, especially if you find the right person, having slept with many before them. If you are still attached to somebody else at the highest frequencies through time and space, how can someone new come into your life and occupy that same space? Well the answer is they can’t, not without sharing you with all the other people in your past life and not without problems throughout. The problem is that the more people you have slept with, the more fragmented your ‘everything’ is and you can actually belong to a number of people.
O and it gets worse - the spirit of every person has its own personality that reflects them. It can be wholly positive, negative and anything in between. You, in having a physical encounter with anyone, are going to display and take on moods in your life that are not actually yours. Even people who have not had any sexual encounter with someone or a group can get caught in the 'spirit' of the moment and do things that they would not even have dreamt of. Why? Because they were surrounded by strong enough auras to be 'charged' as they were. So a forged connection after sex is not to be taken lightly. This also highlights the importance of finding a true 'soul mate', someone who wholly complements you, in a soul tie that you actually want! Earlier I mentioned dreaming about a person, well dreams are not the only place where some nasty and very weird experiences can occur.
First you need to increase spiritual strength. The fastest way to do this is to fast. All over the world people having been fasting for centuries because they knew the power to be gained from it. So what does fasting actually do? Fasting breaks the body down (the lower nature) and when that plummets the higher nature (the spirit) of a person rises. Oddly enough a controlled fast also has good health implications for the immune system and organs, so as you tackle the metaphysical mess, you'll also be regenerating the body.
2. Prayer Or Affirmations (depending on your beliefs/methods)
To sever ties you have to declare the break…with everyone you ever had sex with, especially the person that you are thinking about the most or that appears in your dreams. Their personal name has power and a specific direction to them is the best marker in the universe. However if you were really living the life and you can’t remember everyone you’ve had sex with, then you might have to do a blanket prayer/affirmation. It may sound absolutely ludicrous to some, but blood magic, verbal oaths and pacts are like a form of metaphysical glue. When you declare and swear things like “I’ll love you forever” you are binding yourself to a person in more than the shape of an idea. Blood is the highest resonating material on Earth, for metaphysical deeds because it is the fuel of life, not much lives without it. It is why it is used in so many rituals, worldwide, past and present within groups that have no connection to each other. Have you ever considered, why the price of virginity in a woman has always been so high and a treasured virtue? Why do you think a female virgin is…was so highly desired? It is because the first man that she connects with (that is supposed to be her one and only forever) consummates the marriage covenant, through the physical and metaphysical sexual covenant. The blood from the hymen shedding on him consummates their bond in both realms and that, coupled with their word oaths from the wedding ceremony (their vows) is a very serious union. Obviously sometimes there is no bleeding of the hymen, but the sentiment in both realms is the same.
As a side note if you have never fasted before find out how it is done, fasting is not just simply 'not eating' and you certainly don’t just jump into it unprepared.
On the word fornication (I’m trying to recall from memory) but it is said to derive from fornicatio, which came from fornix. Apparently the fornix was an architectural term to describe a particular arch in a building where prostitutes hung out and plied their trade. It has also been suggested that the fornix specifically belonged to temples and it was temple prostitutes that would receive people and help them via sex rites.
So for example, a farmer who needed good crops may go to a prostitute to reap a good harvest. Obviously you can see why fornication, especially from a religious point of view was not allowed, but how it become the term for sex whilst unmarried I don’t know.